Ukuba umfana uneengxaki zemali, unethamsanqa ukuba abe nentombi. Usenokuhamba engenakhaya. Kodwa nangoko, ukohlukana nentombi yakhe ngolo hlobo, ngenxa yemali, aze ayinyebelezele kumhlobo wakhe. Ewe, iyaphambana indlela azakumjonga ngayo apha emehlweni, xa imali ingazukuba yingxaki. Uninzi lwazo zonke zandichukumisa indlela intombazana, ngokujonga okwanelisekile, yathatha imbewu yalo mhlobo osisityebi. Ngelo xesha ndandizibuza ukuba usamdinga na lo mfana wakhe.
Ukusuka ngaphambili kunye nangasemva - kakuhle, umfazi flat ngokupheleleyo. Inye kuphela inzuzo ebonakalayo - ii-orifices eziyilwe kakuhle. Kwaye ke ngenxa yeempundu ezithe tyaba kulula kakhulu ukutsala iqabane lakho kwimpundu, nokuba ungagobanga. Kwaye andiyiboni enye into enomdla kweli nenekazi! Indoda ngokusisiseko ineminyaka yobudala, ngoko ke iparamitha emisela yona bubudala bomfazi kunye nokwenzeka kokusebenza kwakhe ngomva!
Utata wamnika ubushushu! Ndithe ndisajonge leyo, ndazibuza ukuba ingaba kubuhlungu na kula mantombazana ukuba nelungu elinamandla kangaka! Kodwa babencwina kamnandi kangangokuba ndavulelwa ngoko nangoko.